If you were hacking since age 8, it means you were privileged.

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All you hackers should read this. True to form, I came to hacking late, much despite a strong interest in mathematics as a child. (For those who may not be aware, mathematics does not have the same gender inequity problems CS does.) These sorts of privilege contests have always pissed me off, not just because of the machismo involved but also —though I did not have the words at the time— exactly because of their brandishing of white male privilege as virtuous and ideal.

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Re: Machismo and Privilege

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The machismo I was referring to isn't the privilege. Rather, it's the way that that privilege gets flaunted in pissing contests in order to perform one's masculinity.

If it were just privilege, that's one thing. I come from more than enough privilege. While my programming career only began somewhere between highschool and freshman year, I did have access to computers from a very young age, and I was certainly encouraged to learn to program them rather than just play with them. That I didn't start earlier is probably due to the fact that C++ was the language suggested by my father, a database programmer with the USPS. (C++ makes absolutely no sense. But once I found Perl I was done for.)

While programming wasn't my thing growing up, I did have the privilege to go to CTY for four years to study college-level mathematics (and biochem) over the summers of middleschool and early highschool. Because of this, and a mother who was supremely willing to combat public schooling administration on my behalf, I got to graduate HS a year early. I've only recently begun to truly appreciate the fact that she played a far more significant role in the process than did my own eduction or intelligence. E.g., were not for her, they would have placed me in remedial schooling in the third grade, due to boredom— rather than sending me to a magnet program for gifted and talented students. After graduating early, I got to go to a private liberal arts college that specializes in (mostly white) kids who are too smart for their own good. To this day I'm certain that at any other college I would have failed out for boredom. I wouldn't be where I am today were not for this privilege heaped upon privilege; even despite the fact that I was disowned halfway through Reed and had to pay my own way for the rest of it, as well as for PSU and JHU since then.

The point of discussing privilege is not to apologize, it's to acknowledge the role it plays in shaping all our lives so that we can overcome the biases induced by our failure to recognize how hard life is for others. Privilege will always exist, regardless of resources; acknowledging it is an act of compassion, not repentance. Noone's asking you to give up the opportunities your mother made for you. Debasing ourselves does not serve to help others. But we must recognize the sources of our power if we are to use that power to do good rather than harm.

But that wasn't my point here nor, I think, the point of the OP. There's a certain ritual that male geeks perform in order to enact their masculinity and to set up the pecking order. Part of this ritual is bragging about how early they started programming, whether that's our generation's age-based bragging or the previous generation's technology-based bragging (punch cards, anyone?). The way they go about this is aggressive and exclusionary, the same as rituals of machismo among non-geek men like talking shit or exaggerating sexual prowess. These acts of machismo are one of the reasons why women are so rare in our field. Consider, for instance this article or this paper on how the masculine environments of stereotypical (male) geeks causes women to distance themselves from any interest in computer science. Certainly, opportunities should be extended to women and minorities in order to counterbalance lack of privilege; but if systemic issues in geek culture are not addressed, then they will have little desire to follow up on those opportunities.